::~mother to a sister::~

"I haven't found any entry in Islam that permit what you are doing

right now. I haven't heard from anyone that love before marriage is

permitted. But I know there's no relationship between male and

female except for what is very important and official between them.

So, may I know what kind of relationship you are having now and I

want to hear it from your mouth that it is legal in what you have

been learning until now."

"Not a single phrase, nor a word."

"My sweetheart, if you want to build a family, a faithful one, you

can never build it on what Allah has stated as wrong and proven

false by the way Rasulullah p.b.u.h has taught us. A happy and

blessed family come from Allah, and you don't even have anything to

defend it as blessed if the first step you make is by stepping into

what He has prohibited. You can't have a happy family if Allah

doesn't help you so, and you must know in every family that stands

until their dying day, they have Allah on their side. You can't

expect Him to help you if you did the wrong step from the very

beginning."